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Cake day: March 14th, 2023

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  • Ah, and there it is. You have proven my point, yet again, better than I ever could.

    “In your statement you assert that our actions, even though peaceful, must be condemned because they precipitate violence. But is this a logical assertion? Isn’t this like condemning a robbed man because his possession of money precipitated the evil act of robbery?”

    You just told me my anger is the problem and that my feelings are “overwhelming my communication.” That I should stop seeing the world as dichotomous. In other words: the person naming the injustice is responsible for the discomfort caused by naming it. You tone police the objection so you never have to address the objection itself, and your response to being told you were handling it badly was to diagnose my emotional state.

    https://letterfromjail.com/


  • The point isn’t my feelings, it’s not your fucking feelings either. It’s that you keep treating trans people’s right to exist as an intellectual exercise requiring balance. It’s isn’t. Honestly, what on earth is wrong with you?

    It’s worth noting you thanked the person who educated you patiently and spent four replies defending yourself to the person who named what you were doing. That’s a very white moderate response to being told you’re doing white moderate things. Trans people should not need to justify themselves this way. Jesus Christ.




  • The “white moderate” position you’re demonstrating is what MLK warned about: someone who agrees injustice is wrong, but insists on finding neutral framings for it. You’re more devoted to appearing objective than to justice.

    Trans people do not owe anyone a medicalised justification for their existence on a government document, period. The DMV are not medical staff. Your gender has nothing to do with passing a test to drive.

    Searching for a “reasonable” angle on a law built on hate doesn’t make you objective, it makes you an obstacle; and to paraphrase what MLK said: Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than outright hostility.